A recent family-related incident involving a man, his wife of eight years, and two children has generated discussion among social media users.
This father of two responded to a tweet asking married guys about abandoning their families and never coming back.
His wife’s friend saw the post and presented it to his wife, who blew up the entire time telling her version of the story.
After a married man named @alexnjenga on Twitter disclosed his marriage experience, the serene environment of Twitter was turned upside down.
Alex had responded to a user’s post asking married men how often they considered packing up their belongings and running away, using the handle @polo kimani.
Mr. Alex revealed that he left his wife of eight years, his two children, his three-bedroom apartment, his car, and everything else on December 31, 2021, to start afresh.
He claimed that he did this for his own peace of mind.
The Man Tweeted:
“Boss, after 8 years of marriage, I left on 31st December 2021 for work and never came back. I left my 2 kids, my 3 bedroom house worth more than 10 million, my car and everything to start afresh. Sometimes, peace is worth leaving behind material things.”
His estranged wife was shown the post by a friend who had come across it.
In response to her husband’s comment, the wife @diana0133303992 disclosed that he had abandoned her for almost a year without saying a word.
Despite the fact that their daughter has autism, he has not once visited the children.
The woman said that the couple’s autistic kid is receiving speech treatment, so the man shouldn’t disparage them.
She also argued that if he had done what he had for the sake of peace, he could have at least been keeping an eye on the kids.
See Tweeted the following:
“I was busy at work then a mutual friend sent me this tweet. I had to come see for myself. You left an autistic daughter behind and are busy lying online? The guy has never checked on his kids. He has never even stopped by to see if the kids are well.”
“If it’s peace, he could be seeing his kids. But nothing. 1 year later I have speech therapy to attend therapy for an autistic daughter. The guy is still bad mouthing us. Bana chill.”
See some of the social media reactions below:
1) @xysist commented
“All I see is she has zeroed in on the autistic daughter for some reason and has not refuted all the other things mentioned in the entire thread. Ref says carry on.”
2) @ernestmakau said:
“Don’t be emotionally attached to your kids they will be used to misuse you. A man should be able to leave anything behind and move on. That woman thought the man couldn’t leave an autistic kid behind? She was wrong and now she is even more bitter.”
3) @Austin_tunoi said:
“The tone, mood and attitude defines a toxic person. But the man leaving behind an autistic daughter is very sad. Even if you left a car, house etc that can’t be justified. Just start a family elsewhere but don’t neglect.”
4) @Kingsley_papa reacted:
“A kid is has two parents, I have never understood that deadbeat dad thing, if a woman leaves me with the kid, is she deadbeat?”
5) @Wahomekimathi commented:
“Reminds me of my dad who left a 3br house seated on two acres and bought land elsewhere and built though he got bp and diabetes from stress.”