When allowing a couple to move into your home, there are a few things to take into account.
One is that you can anticipate them acting like a married couple when you’re not around; if you’ve ever been in a relationship, you’ll know what I’m talking about.
Being angry about these events is unfair, especially if you have no direct impact on them.
A recent Reddit post described how a woman’s sister and brother-in-law moved into her home after they were kicked out for failing to pay the medical bills for their daughter.
“Walking out of the bathroom together” was the heinous act that the two were caught doing. Astonished by what he saw, OP’s husband insisted that she talk to their new tenants and establish some rules.
Without a doubt, OP received the response one would anticipate.
Read the entire story and some of the most popular comments down below!
On her Reddit account, the woman wrote:
“AITA for telling my sister to stop taking showers with her husband in my house?”
“My f32, sister f28, and her husband m32 moved in with us 2 days ago after they lost their apartment to medical debts for their child (my nephew). My husband and I are more than happy to have them stay for few weeks til they get this resolved.” the woman explained
“However, Yesterday at 7 PM, I was in the kitchen when my husband rushed in and said that he saw both my sister and her husband walk out of the bathroom. They’d most likely taken a shower together. My husband said that it irked him and I agreed that what they did was somewhat inappropriate. He asked me to speak to my sister on the matter and I did. She got defensive asking how this is affecting me or my husband in any way. I told her that it made my husband feel uncomfortable and would rather that they just take their showers separately.” the woman continued
“She started ranting about being overwhelmed by their son’s health problems and not having some alone time together as a married couple and found this activity as a bonding time to spend together. I apologized for how she felt but requested that she just do as asked. She got mad at me and said that I was being inconsiderate and she didn’t understand my husband’s hangup on what she and her husband do. We started arguing and she stormed off to the guests room where my nephew and BIL are.
“She’s not speaking to me but my husband said I did the right thing by speaking to her and setting this boundary. AITA? Am I (and my husband) overreacting to this?” the woman said in a reddit post.
“My husband did not mention hearing anything, just that he saw them get out of the bathroom. And yes they were clothed.” she continued
-They spent approximately 10 mins in the shower according to her husband.
-It’s the only bathroom in the house.
“EDIT* I’m gonna bring my husband to look at the responses and help answer some questions down here, okay? Just give me a few minutes. I’m sorry I can’t respond to every single comment but my husband says he’s uncomfortable and doesn’t want to expand on the situation.” she posted on her reddit account
Redditors all agreed that the woman husband’s concern for the actions of his sister and brother-in-law was extremely weird.
Here are some of the most popular comments:
1) One user commented:
“If my partner did that, I would say “good, they’re saving water by sharing a shower”
2) Another user said:
“I got second hand embarrassment from this post. He declined to answer questions because he knows his behavior is that of a 2nd grader boy in a playground full of girls. I can imagine how dead OP’s bedroom is…”
3) A different user reacted:
“Maybe they weren’t even showering together – just my assumption, but what if that is the only place where they can close the door and discuss sensitive things (like son’s health, family financials etc) without any prying eyes and ears?”
4) Another person added:
“YTA. ….my response would have been…..”um….and?” What a charmed life you must lead to have such an inconsequential thing bother you. Be sure and post again when the next trauma occurs. We’ll be waiting.”
5) Another person reacted:
“And they were ONLY 10 minutes. So they actually saved more hot water, than if they had showered separately. I don’t think they were doing the hanky panky in 10 minutes LOL OP gentle YTA Chill out a bit.”
6) Another user commented:
“It genuinely just sounds like they wanted to spend some quiet time together to bond to me in that time, which I think is sweet. Definitely would have suspected longer if it was (sex.)”
7) A different user said:
“Right? I shower with my boyfriend pretty often and we don’t touch each other, but we have some super interesting and fun conversations. YTA OP.”
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