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My father was responsible for my first pregnancy and he wants a second kid before he takes me back to school. A lady narrates.

In Summary:

  • Joyce, a lady  from Naivasha, tells a touching story about being abused by her biological father, who was also the father of her first child.
  • He describes how his father insisted on having a second kid with her so that he would take her back to school.
  • His father first denied the allegations, but after a DNA test, he was proven guilty and sentenced to 15 years in prison.

On the Lynn Ngugi Show, Joyce Ngugi, a lady from Naivasha, shared her terrible story about being abused by her biological father.

She said that when she was in class 7, her father began making moves toward her.

He began by inappropriately touching her, and when it became too much, Joyce avoided sitting inside the house whenever she was alone with his father.

Joyce was sent home for school money when she was in form one, and her mother was not present at the time.

Her father stated that he would only be able to pay her school fees if she gave him a kid.

He pressed himself against her and threatened to ‘kil’ her if she ever spoke anything about the occurrence.

Joyce remained silent out of fears of her father abusing her every time she was sent home for school fees until she became pregnant.

When Joyce’s mother found out she was expecting, she tried to persuade her to divulge the baby’s father, but Joyce remained silent.

Joyce’s father went away to look for work and returned two weeks after she gave birth.

Even when his wife encouraged him to say something about Joyce giving delivery outside of ward lock, he never said anything to Joyce.

Joyce addressed her father when the kid was six months old and told him she wanted to return to school.

She assumed that after the kid was delivered, her father would never dream of defiling her again, but she was completely incorrect.

Her father insisted on having another child with her. He promised that he would only take her to school once she had another child.

Joyce chose to report her father to the police chief because she thought he was out of her control.

That’s when she told everyone that her father was the father of her first child, and her mother fainted on the spot.

He initially rejected the claims, but following a DNA test, he was found guilty and imprisoned for 15 years.


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Joyce returned to school in 2019 and completed form four, but she has remained at home because she has no one to take her to college.

Joyce despises her father since he ruined her life by physically and emotionally assaulting her.

Her daughter is now eight years old, but she is physically disabled and unwell.